Your Love Language

On this page you will find a test on the subject of love. This test only shows a short excerpt and serves only as an initial orientation. It gives you an indication of your result. We offer the full test and a detailed analysis in our coaching sessions and events.

Find Your Love Language – 10 Questions

How do you feel most loved?

a) When someone tells me how important I am to him/her.
b) When someone gives me a thoughtful gift.
c) When we spend time together and do things together.
d) If someone helps me without me having to ask for it.

What makes you particularly happy in a relationship?

a) Loving and uplifting words.
b) Small gifts or presents.
c) Shared experiences or in-depth conversations.
d) Tenderness such as hugs or touching.

How would you show your affection to a loved one?

a) Through a sincere compliment or loving words.
b) Through a gift that shows that I have thought of him/her.
c) By consciously spending time together.
d) By doing something practical for him/her.

What would help you in a difficult situation?

a) Someone who builds me up with positive words.
b) Someone who brings me a little surprise to cheer me up.
c) Someone who takes the time to listen to me.
d) Someone who takes me in their arms or touches me.

What does a perfect day with your partner mean to you?

a) A day full of loving words and compliments.
b) A day on which I receive a small gift that comes from the heart.
c) A day that we consciously spend and enjoy together.
d) A day full of touching and tenderness.

How do you react most to criticism?

a) I need words that encourage me and don't just contain criticism.
b) I feel better when someone gives me a small gift.
c) I need someone who will take the time to talk to me about it.
d) I feel comforted by a hug or a touch.

What would be the best birthday present for you?

a) A loving card with personal words.
b) A thoughtful gift that shows that someone has thought of me.
c) A shared experience, such as an excursion or dinner.
d) A warm hug and genuine closeness.

How do you feel when you argue with someone?

a) I need words that restore our connection.
b) A small sign of reconciliation, like a gift, helps me.
c) I would like us to sit down and discuss everything calmly.
d) A hug can show me that everything will be okay.

What is the best way to show your love?

a) By giving encouraging words or compliments.
b) By giving small gifts.
c) By spending time with the person.
d) By touching or hugging the person.

What makes you happiest after a long, tiring day?

a) Words like "I'm proud of you" or "Well done!".
b) A small surprise such as a flower or chocolate.
c) Time for a long chat or relaxing together.
d) A loving touch or massage.