U-Circle
Love Mentor Training & Certification
(100-hour Trainer in Self-Love, Dating & Relationships)
Guided live online sessions
For people who want to transform their own relationship patterns and learn to accompany others on their path to conscious relationships.
6-month training for self-love, dating, relationship & love mentoring
It’s a vibrant community of love mentors and people who believe that fulfilling relationships don’t just “happen”, they happen when we truly understand ourselves, recognize our patterns and learn to be honest and authentic with each other.
The U-Circle brings together people who are on the path to healthy, conscious relationships. Some later accompany others – but the focus is first and foremost on your own development. We don’t grow alone, but together. We mirror each other, hold space for each other and walk this path together. In six months, you will recognize your relationship patterns, integrate old wounds and develop emotional maturity,learning to feel yourself more clearly, show yourself more honestly and stay present in connection – with yourself and with others.
Dates: – September 14, 2026 to March 15, 2027
The path to conscious relationship skills, inner maturity and professional fulfillment
The world longs for people who lead with their hearts – who love, listen and lead with courage. U-Dating is more than just an event. It is a movement for a healthy relationship culture.
The U-Circle is an intensive 6-month development program that combines personal development, relationship awareness and training. For singles and people in relationships who want to take their love life to a new level and accompany others on their journey.
Turn your heart wounds into wisdom – and become the Love Mentor you’ve always wanted. No more toxic patterns. No more superficial dating. No more giving relationship advice to others while your own love life is a mess.
U-Circle shows you how to recognize your own relationship patterns and at the same time learn to guide others safely through their heart journey. In just 6 months you will go from love seeker to love guide.
For all those who want to deepen their relationship skills, create their own events and become part of a lively movement.
What makes U-Circle special
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Community instead of going it alone
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Honest exchange
We talk about things that are not usually discussed: Closeness, boundaries, patterns, vulnerability and love. -
Growing together
Everyone brings experience, perspective and heart to the table. -
Rooting
Those who become part of the U-Circle remain part of a growing culture of conscious, mature love.
U-Circle is not a one-off course. It is a home. A culture. One movement.
Heal yourself.
Hold workshops
Connect people.
The U-First method: Heal yourself, then lead others
There is a way to heal your patterns and learn to lead others at the same time. The U-First method stops automatic self-sabotage and refocuses your heart on real, healthy love. Like a reboot when the computer hangs. “I am unlovable” is replaced with new, healthy programs. What makes it special: Double transformation. You get to know yourself while you learn to safely accompany others. In three months, you will become the version of yourself that lives conscious relationships – and learn how to accompany other singles in your city on their journey.
Birgitt
Completely new spaces and feelings opened up for me, such as being unconditional and simply letting myself go in trust. There is so much love, for myself and for other people. As so often when I go through processes, my body showed me that it needed time to integrate and that I should avoid the outside world for a while, so I was ill for the first two weeks. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for these experiences and new insights! I know that I made exactly the right decision to do the U-Circle training!
What can you expect in these 6 months?
| Module | Your profit |
| 6 live sessions (2 hours each, 30 days) | Online live mentoring with Ray – “The recording is available afterwards.” |
| Pods (2 x 2 h each, 30 days) | In our pods you meet in small, consistent groups. You share experiences, deepen your knowledge, practise methods directly in practice – and grow together. This creates trust, depth and a lively |
| Community |
In the U-Circle there are:
Everyone who becomes a Love Mentor remains part of this community as long as they remain active. |
| Program documents | Videos, scripts in PDFs |
| Matching | Matching in the Circle – as soon as you are both single and are open to getting to know each other. how? You’ll get the details after you register😉 |
Time frame per month:
Approx. 2-3 hours live calls,
additionally 10-11 hours of self-study & practice
and 2 pod meetings per month of 2 hours each in fixed small groups.
investment : 2.849 €
Optional upgrade
One personal 1:1 mentoring session with Ray (60 minutes) per month for €120
(instead of the regular €199 – exclusively for U-Circle participants)
And as a U-Circle member you enjoy further benefits:
- You save 10% on all our camps and events.
- For just 10 euros a month, you can remain part of the community after joining and becoming certified and take part in our regular meetings and online activities. There you will meet people who, like you, are interested in healthy and conscious relationships – many of whom are mindful singles or already love coaches.
🌟 Program to become a love mentor
(Trainer:in for self-love, dating & relationship)
Contents of the U-Circle – divided into 6 modules
Module 1 - Consciously shaping self-love & relationship patterns
Module 2: Depth: inner child, motives, polarity & conscious partnership
Module 3: Conscious Connection & Emotional Maturity
Module 4: Boundaries, diversity & love leadership
Module 5: Intimacy, sexuality & relationship alchemy
Module 6: Mentor Mastery & Preparation for the U-Dating Franchise Certification
- Focal points of the program
The program includes the following focal points
MODULE 1
Self-love & relationship patterns
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You learn:
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Recognize your relationship scripts and patterns
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Understand unconscious dynamics from your past
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clarify your values and ideas about relationships
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Recognize projections and shadow parts
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develop healthy self-love
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Tools in this module include:
Reflection, journaling, archetype work & shadow work
Module 2
Inner child, trauma & emotional healing
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You learn:
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understand your inner child
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Recognize core emotional needs
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Trauma-informed relationship skills
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regulate your nervous system
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develop emotional self-regulation
Tools in this module include:
U-HEAL Method, EFT Tapping, Breathwork & Somatic Awareness -
Module 3
Conscious connection & emotional maturity
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You learn:
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Recognize and regulate triggers
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take emotional responsibility
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Navigating conflicts more maturely
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to listen empathically
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Communicate needs clearly
Tools in this module include:
Non-violent communication, transactional analysis & relationship dialogs -
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Module 4
Boundaries, trust & love leadership
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You learn:
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Set and maintain healthy boundaries
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Building trust
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develop emotional self-management
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recognize manipulative relationship patterns
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Design safe spaces for groups
Tools in this module include:
Boundary exercises, role work, group facilitation & safe space methods -
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Module 5
Intimacy, sexuality & relationship alchemy
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You learn:
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Consciously building intimacy
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Transforming shame and insecurity
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Communicate wishes and boundaries clearly
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Integrate sexuality as part of emotional connection
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Tools in this module include:
Embodied consent, shame work, intimacy exercises & erotic communication
Module 6
Mentor Mastery & Certification
You learn:
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Holding spaces for emotional processes
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to ask powerful breakthrough questions
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Moderate group processes safely
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Accompanying transformation responsibly
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Structure workshops and group formats
Tools in this module include:
Active Listening, Breakthrough Questions, Mirroring & Group Leadership

Next steps
- Apply– 5-minute form
- Get-to-know-you call– Are we a good match? Clarification of open questions
- Secure your place– make a deposit, receive a welcome pack
- Kick‑off‑Call– Start – wird kommuniziert-
Limited seats guarantee an intimate learning group. Do you feel the call? Follow it!
* Important note:
This course is not an accredited training course and does not replace therapeutic or psychological counseling. It is exclusively for your personal development and provides content that will help you to design workshops and group offers. It is not associated with or possible to conduct individual counseling or coaching in the sense of psychotherapy or life counseling.
If you complete the U-Dating franchise course afterwards, you can also be qualified to conduct official U-Dating workshops.
YES, I’M IN!
Is the program suitable for you?
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Yes, if you…
- want to take a new professional direction and learn sound tools for facilitating groups, workshops and processes.
- Would you like to create or deepen workshops on the topics of self-love, dating and conscious relationships?
- are already doing something similar and would like to expand your toolbox.
- you have the feeling that you’re doing your best in groups, but it’s not really “sparking” yet – and you want to find out why.
- want to take your relationship to a deeper level – together or alone.
- want to be part of a vibrant, open and value-based community – locally and globally.
- are looking for a partner with a similar mindset – and are no longer interested in superficial dating formats.
- live in a fulfilling partnership and want to pass on your experiences – with tools, structure and heart.
- are not afraid of honest shadow work and are prepared to look deeper.
- want to get to know yourself better, especially in dealing with people and in love relationships.
- are mentally and physically healthy and can actively participate in the live sessions and group tasks.
- prefer to learn live instead of only watching ready-made videos (even if there are many of them!)
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Rather not, if you…
- you feel very uncomfortable in mixed groups (with different genders) and are not open to reflecting on this.
- you are looking for training in the shamanic, ritual or purely energetic field.
- do not have a laptop, computer or stable internet connection available.
- you are currently in a mentally unstable phase of your life or are dependent on strong medication.
FAQs
When do the live calls take place?
We coordinate the dates together with the participants. All sessions are recorded – even if you can’t be there live, you won’t miss a thing.
Do I have to be present for all live calls?
No. Participation is recommended, but you will receive each recording afterwards.
Is this a coaching course?
Yes – you will receive well-founded tools, reflection questions, methods and structure. After the course, you can create your own workshops on self-love, relationships and dating.
Am I allowed to organize official U-Dating events afterwards?
Not yet directly. This course is a prerequisite for the U-Dating event leader certificationwhich is offered separately.
Is U-Circle right for me if I'm still single?
Absolutely. Many of our best mentors started out as singles. Your single status doesn’t make you any less qualified… in fact, it often makes you clearer about what you really want. You learn to understand your patterns before you repeat them in a new relationship.
Do I need previous experience in coaching or mentoring?
No. We start from scratch. Your life experience and your heart are more important than certificates. The best guides are people who have gone through hard times themselves… not those who claim never to have fallen.
What happens if I can't complete all the sessions?
Life happens. All sessions are recorded. Your pod group supports you. We have participants who have been successful despite working shifts or having young children. It’s about progress, not perfection.
What makes U-Circle different from other coaching programs?
You heal yourself while you learn to lead others. Most programs only focus on one thing. We combine personal transformation with practical mentoring skills. Plus: You get access to the U-Dating community.
What about the money-back guarantee?
If you do the exercises, take part in the sessions and after 90 days you don’t feel that anything positive has changed in you, you will get your money back from us as coaching sessions, after a 1:1 discussion. Period. We believe in our method.
How does it work with the pod groups?
You will be assigned to a small group of 3-4 people. You will meet online once a week for about an hour. Here you practise what you have learned, share your experiences and receive feedback. Your pod becomes your support family.
Is there group work or peer support?
Yes, if you wish, you will be assigned to a small peer group (max. 7 people). You will be given joint tasks, can exchange ideas and strengthen each other – voluntary, but highly recommended.
I've never led a workshop before and I'm afraid to show my face - is that ok?
Absolutely! You don’t have to take on the role of event leader. This course can be entirely for yourself – for self-awareness, empowerment and personal development.
Can I also meet a suitable partner through the U-Circle?
Yes – many participants are singles with similar values and a desire for a conscious relationship. We offer optional matching if you are open to it.
Am I ready to lead my own workshops after the course?
Yes – with the knowledge and guidance from this course, you have a solid foundation. We also recommend taking part in U-Dating events and retreats as well as the subsequent event leader certification to get off to a flying start.
What if I'm already in a relationship?
Perfect. You can observe and change your current patterns in real time. Many participants report that their partnerships become deeper and more conscious. Your partner will feel the change.
How much time do I need to invest per week?
About 3-4 hours per week. That’s the live sessions, your pod meetings and the personal exercises. Less than a Netflix series… but with real results for your life.
Is the program only for women or also for men?
For all genders. Love and relationship patterns affect everyone. Our groups are mixed because different perspectives enrich learning. Everyone brings unique wisdom.
Do I have to lead U-Dating events after the program?
No, this is optional. Many participants use the skills in their existing job or personal life. The certification opens doors… but you decide which ones you walk through.
Can I also take part if I am already undergoing therapy?
Yes, U-Circle does not replace therapy, but complements it perfectly. We focus on practical relationship skills and mentoring… not on deep trauma work. Many participants do both in parallel, please speak to your therapist.
What if I am shy or afraid of groups?
Many of our participants started in exactly the same way. The pods are small, safe spaces. No one is pressured to share. You set your own pace. Often the quiet ones end up being the wisest guides.
Will I continue to receive support after the program?
Yes, you will remain part of the U-Circle community. Monthly calls, access to the Telegram group and discounts on all U-Dating events. Once U-Circle, always family.
Are you ready for the U-Circle?
Please fill out the form to book your personal meeting and find out more about the U-Circle:
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