U-Circle
Love Mentor Training & Certification
(Trainer:in for self-love, dating & relationship)
U-Circle is a community of love mentors , a vibrant community of people who believe that fulfilling relationships don’t “happen”, they happen when we understand ourselves, recognize our patterns and learn to be authentic in our relationships. But more importantly, we also mentor each other.
It is a transformation. In just 90 days you will recognize your old relationship patterns, unfold your true potential and at the same time learn to safely accompany others on their path. You don’t have to be perfect to lead – your wounds become your wisdom, your heart becomes your greatest strength.
Dates:
– March 1 to May 31, 2026
– June 15, 2026 to September 15, 2026
– 1. October 2026 bis 15. Januar 2027
The path to conscious relationship skills, inner maturity and professional fulfillment
The world longs for people who lead with their hearts – who love, listen and lead with courage. U-Dating is more than just an event. It is a movement for a healthy relationship culture.
The U-Circle is an intensive 3-month development program that combines personal development, relationship awareness and training. For singles and people in relationships who want to take their love life to a new level and accompany others on their journey.
Transform your heart wounds into wisdom – and become the Love Mentor you’ve always wanted. Put an end to toxic patterns. No more superficial dating. Stop giving relationship advice to others while your own love life is a mess.
U-Circle shows you how to recognize your own relationship patterns and at the same time learn how to guide others safely through their heart journey. In just 3 months, you will go from love seeker to love guide.
For all those who want to deepen their relationship skills, create their own events and become part of a lively movement.
What makes U-Circle special
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Community instead of going it alone
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Honest exchange
We talk about things that are not usually discussed: Closeness, boundaries, patterns, vulnerability and love. -
Growing together
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Rooting
Those who become part of the U-Circle remain part of a growing culture of conscious, mature love.
U-Circle is not a one-off course. It is a home. A culture. One movement.
Heal yourself.
Hold workshops
Connect people.
The U-First method: Heal yourself, then lead others
There is a way to heal your patterns and learn to lead others at the same time. The U-First method stops automatic self-sabotage and refocuses your heart on real, healthy love. Like a reboot when the computer hangs. “I am unlovable” is replaced with new, healthy programs. What makes it special: Double transformation. You get to know yourself while you learn to safely accompany others. In three months, you will become the version of yourself that lives conscious relationships – and learn how to accompany other singles in your city on their journey.
What can you expect during these three months?
| Module | Your profit |
| 6 live sessions (2 hours each, fortnightly) | Online live mentoring with Ray – “The recording is available afterwards.” |
| Pods | In our pods you meet in small, consistent groups. You share experiences, deepen your knowledge, practise methods directly in practice – and grow together. This creates trust, depth and a lively |
| Community |
In the U-Circle there are:
Every person who becomes a Love Mentor remains part of this community as long as they remain active. |
| Program documents | Videos, scripts in PDFs |
| Matching | Matching in the Circle – as soon as you are both single and are open to getting to know each other. how? You’ll get the details after you register😉 |
Time commitment / month: approx. 4 h live + 8-10 h self-study & practice.
Investment: € 1,499 plus 20% VAT.
And as a U-Circle member you enjoy further benefits:
- You save 10% on all our camps and events.
- For just 10 euros a month, you can remain part of the community after joining and becoming certified and take part in our regular meetings and online activities. There you will meet people who, like you, are interested in healthy and conscious relationships – many of whom are mindful singles or already love coaches.
🌟 Program to become a love mentor
(Trainer:in for self-love, dating & relationship)
Contents of the U-Circle – divided into 6 modules
Module 1 - Consciously shaping self-love & relationship patterns
Module 2: Depth: inner child, motives, polarity & conscious partnership
Module 3: Conscious Connection & Emotional Maturity
Module 4: Boundaries, diversity & love leadership
Module 5: Intimacy, sexuality & relationship alchemy
Module 6: Mentor Mastery & Preparation for the U-Dating Franchise Certification
- Focal points of the program
The program includes the following focal points
Module 1 – Consciously shaping self-love & relationship patterns
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- Self-love, why and how
- Be able to recognize your own relationship patterns precisely.
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Understand recurring cycles and be able to break them permanently.
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Be able to use polarity & role awareness to attract harmonious relationships.
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Practice: Recognize, reflect, apply directly; exchange in small groups and be able to use targeted feedback & networking.
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Module 2 – Depth: inner child, motives, polarity & conscious partnership
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Heal early wounds and strengthen inner security.
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Being able to make unconscious motives visible.
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Being able to integrate healthy masculinity & femininity – for balance.
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building blocks of conscious partnership and emotional maturity.
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Practice: Explore your own issues, integrate inner parts, practice and stabilize with support.
Module 3 – Conscious Connection & Emotional Maturity
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- Being able to translate inner clarity into deep, authentic connection.
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Empathy, active listening and conflict navigation.
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predict break-ups.
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Understand the development phases of relationships and be able to go through them safely.
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Practice: practicing live communication, sharpening emotional awareness, being able to apply connection-strengthening exercises.
Module 4 – Boundaries, Diversity & Love Leadership
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Being able to set and maintain healthy boundaries – without feeling guilty.
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Being able to design safe, inclusive spaces – for all identities & forms of relationships.
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Understand monogamous, polyamorous and open relationships in a non-judgmental way and be able to discuss them.
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strengthen trust in relationships and groups.
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Practice: acting out borderline situations, practicing inclusive language, being able to lead groups safely.
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Module 5 – Intimacy, sexuality & relationship alchemy
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Joy, depth and clarity can be combined in intimacy.
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Explore sexuality & preferences in a mindful and shame-free way.
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recognize and remove “love killers”.
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Know the erogenous zones and be able to deepen physical and emotional closeness.
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Practice: building closeness, expressing wishes, creating and integrating joint rituals.
Module 6 – Mentor Mastery & Preparation for the U-Dating Franchise Certification
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can accompany transformations.
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Be able to hold space, ask breakthrough questions and lead groups safely.
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successfully complete the Love Mentor certification.
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Receive information about the U-Dating franchise, build a local community and generate income.
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Practice: practicing live moderation, obtaining structured feedback, preparing for certification and being able to use individual mentoring.

Next steps
- Apply– 5-minute form
- Get-to-know-you call– Are we a good match? Clarification of open questions
- Secure your place– make a deposit, receive a welcome pack
- Kick-off call– launch on November 11, 2025
Limited seats guarantee an intimate learning group. Do you feel the call? Follow it!
* Important note:
This course is not an accredited training course and does not replace therapeutic or psychological counseling. It is exclusively for your personal development and provides content that will help you to design workshops and group offers. It is not associated with or possible to conduct individual counseling or coaching in the sense of psychotherapy or life counseling.
If you complete the U-Dating franchise course afterwards, you can also be qualified to conduct official U-Dating workshops.
YES, I’M IN!
Is the program suitable for you?
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Yes, if you…
- want to take a new professional direction and learn sound tools for facilitating groups, workshops and processes.
- Would you like to create or deepen workshops on the topics of self-love, dating and conscious relationships?
- are already doing something similar and would like to expand your toolbox.
- you have the feeling that you’re doing your best in groups, but it’s not really “sparking” yet – and you want to find out why.
- want to take your relationship to a deeper level – together or alone.
- want to be part of a vibrant, open and value-based community – locally and globally.
- are looking for a partner with a similar mindset – and are no longer interested in superficial dating formats.
- live in a fulfilling partnership and want to pass on your experiences – with tools, structure and heart.
- are not afraid of honest shadow work and are prepared to look deeper.
- want to get to know yourself better, especially in dealing with people and in love relationships.
- are mentally and physically healthy and can actively participate in the live sessions and group tasks.
- prefer to learn live instead of only watching ready-made videos (even if there are many of them!)
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Rather not, if you…
- you feel very uncomfortable in mixed groups (with different genders) and are not open to reflecting on this.
- you are looking for training in the shamanic, ritual or purely energetic field.
- do not have a laptop, computer or stable internet connection available.
- you are currently in a mentally unstable phase of your life or are dependent on strong medication.
FAQs
When do the live calls take place?
We coordinate the dates together with the participants. All sessions are recorded – even if you can’t be there live, you won’t miss a thing.
Do I have to be present for all live calls?
No. Participation is recommended, but you will receive each recording afterwards.
Is this a coaching course?
Yes – you will receive well-founded tools, reflection questions, methods and structure. After the course, you can create your own workshops on self-love, relationships and dating.
Am I allowed to organize official U-Dating events afterwards?
Not yet directly. This course is a prerequisite for the U-Dating event leader certificationwhich is offered separately.
Is U-Circle right for me if I'm still single?
Absolutely. Many of our best mentors started out as singles. Your single status doesn’t make you any less qualified… in fact, it often makes you clearer about what you really want. You learn to understand your patterns before you repeat them in a new relationship.
Do I need previous experience in coaching or mentoring?
No. We start from scratch. Your life experience and your heart are more important than certificates. The best guides are people who have gone through hard times themselves… not those who claim never to have fallen.
What happens if I can't complete all the sessions?
Life happens. All sessions are recorded. Your pod group supports you. We have participants who have been successful despite working shifts or having young children. It’s about progress, not perfection.
What makes U-Circle different from other coaching programs?
You heal yourself while you learn to lead others. Most programs only focus on one thing. We combine personal transformation with practical mentoring skills. Plus: You get access to the U-Dating community.
What about the money-back guarantee?
If you do the exercises, take part in the sessions and after 90 days you don’t feel that anything positive has changed in you, you will get your money back from us as coaching sessions, after a 1:1 discussion. Period. We believe in our method.
How does it work with the pod groups?
You will be assigned to a small group of 3-4 people. You will meet online once a week for about an hour. Here you practise what you have learned, share your experiences and receive feedback. Your pod becomes your support family.
Is there group work or peer support?
Yes, if you wish, you will be assigned to a small peer group (max. 7 people). You will be given joint tasks, can exchange ideas and strengthen each other – voluntary, but highly recommended.
I've never led a workshop before and I'm afraid to show my face - is that ok?
Absolutely! You don’t have to take on the role of event leader. This course can be entirely for yourself – for self-awareness, empowerment and personal development.
Can I also meet a suitable partner through the U-Circle?
Yes – many participants are singles with similar values and a desire for a conscious relationship. We offer optional matching if you are open to it.
Am I ready to lead my own workshops after the course?
Yes – with the knowledge and guidance from this course, you have a solid foundation. We also recommend taking part in U-Dating events and retreats as well as the subsequent event leader certification to get off to a flying start.
What if I'm already in a relationship?
Perfect. You can observe and change your current patterns in real time. Many participants report that their partnerships become deeper and more conscious. Your partner will feel the change.
How much time do I need to invest per week?
About 3-4 hours per week. That’s the live sessions, your pod meetings and the personal exercises. Less than a Netflix series… but with real results for your life.
Is the program only for women or also for men?
For all genders. Love and relationship patterns affect everyone. Our groups are mixed because different perspectives enrich learning. Everyone brings unique wisdom.
Do I have to lead U-Dating events after the program?
No, this is optional. Many participants use the skills in their existing job or personal life. The certification opens doors… but you decide which ones you walk through.
Can I also take part if I am already undergoing therapy?
Yes, U-Circle does not replace therapy, but complements it perfectly. We focus on practical relationship skills and mentoring… not on deep trauma work. Many participants do both in parallel, please speak to your therapist.
What if I am shy or afraid of groups?
Many of our participants started in exactly the same way. The pods are small, safe spaces. No one is pressured to share. You set your own pace. Often the quiet ones end up being the wisest guides.
Will I continue to receive support after the program?
Yes, you will remain part of the U-Circle community. Monthly calls, access to the Telegram group and discounts on all U-Dating events. Once U-Circle, always family.
Are you ready for the U-Circle?
Please fill out the form to book your personal meeting and find out more about the U-Circle:
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