For true connections, without masks

Welcome to U-Dating – the movement for real encounters, conscious relationships and a life without masks.

U-Dating is much more than an alternative dating experience – it’s a worldwide community for people who are ready to meet themselves and others honestly. It’s a space where you date yourself first. The focus is on self-knowledge, healing and growth – from this comes encounter, not the other way around. In addition, we use a mindful matching method that supports suitable encounters. We believe in the power of true connection and that fulfilling relationships start with your relationship with yourself.

IMPORTANT: U-Dating: What It Is and What It Isn’t

U-Dating is neither conscious, speed or slow dating – and not an app. If you’re looking for an “instant partner”, you’re in the wrong place. With us, you go through guided processes to get to know yourself better and strengthen your relationship skills. Connection can happen – or not; both are good. Come without expectations of others or their view of you. Applies to all formats: Day events, camps and U-Circle (live online program).

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With U-Dating to a fulfilling relationship

U-Dating is ideal for those who are looking for more than just superficial online dating experiences – here you will find real people who are looking for long-term and meaningful partnerships. U-Dating offers you spaces to grow, to feel and to be truly human. In our events, retreats and circles, you can show yourself as you really are – vulnerable, alive, real.

Our mission: to create a global movement in which people can meet each other freely and authentically – beyond superficiality, beyond masks. All our camps, events and workshops are based on the

U-First method

It’s all about you first: your self-confidence, your self-love, your inner work and your shadow work. Only when you are strong within yourself do we open up the space for real encounters and a conscious life in connection.

U-Dating is based on relationship intelligence – and we go even further:
With our Love Coach Certification we train people who want to accompany others on their path to healthy, loving relationships.
This is how our vision continues to grow – through you, through us, through everyone who feels that it is time for real closeness.

With U-Dating, you can rest assured that your journey is in safe hands. We’re here to support you as you build real, meaningful relationships and develop your own relationship intelligence.

Personal growth and healthy partnerships – mindfulness as the key to success

Fulfilling relationships start with mindfulness and communication: the better you know yourself and what you really want, the more you are prepared to meet another person at eye level. Discover the secret ingredients for a happy partnership, learn your relationship style and get valuable relationship tips from experts. We have everything you need for personal growth and a healthy relationship .

Test your love language and recognize how you and your partner can better support each other. Get more information and discover how you can take your relationships to the next level.

Testimonials

★★★★★

I would like to thank you once again for the wonderful seminar. You and Jana always create a space of the heart in which a lot of transformation and healing can happen, encounters can occur and doors can open. The next day I was able to recognize and change one of my deepest wounds.

Claudia

Thank you, Ray, for the loving and trusting atmosphere you create. Focusing on the connection and responsibility within yourself to then be able to connect with the other.

Salva

Your U-Dating event is the best thing that has ever happened to me in terms of dating. Forget Tinder. Here I get to know women without expectation and without pressure, and in a really deep way. Please keep it up and make it possible to bring people together in an honest, natural and profound way.

C.N.

Thank you for the opportunity to arrive within myself, to feel and see myself... To love myself, to be there for myself and to give myself everything I want or have ever wanted from others. Thank you for supporting me in this process of becoming aware of myself.

Michael

A great event with nice people! It helps me to work through the topic of relationships with professional support.

Christian S.

Yesterday was my first time at U-Dating and I can absolutely recommend it. 🧡 It was a very touching, enriching afternoon in a wonderful location. Ray manages to open up spaces that invite you to create a very conscious and mindful approach to your own communication☺️ Many thanks for this wonderful afternoon 💜

Susanne

I was very pleasantly surprised and impressed by the quality and sensitivity with which you prepared and carried out this day. Thank you for your great offer, who knows, maybe I will get to know my future partner this way

Hanna

I am thrilled! The U-Dating team put together a great program in a special location and accompanied us carefully through a day full of love and friendship. THANK YOU!

Marta

Thank you for this great experience. It was very moving and still is. I look forward to seeing you again! All my love.

Christine

A day full of insights, lightness, laughter, profound encounters and magical moments. Thank you!

Sandra